Few things can't be said, Only Felt! Friendship is one among those!

mmh dont know where to start from.. as i said "Few things can't be said, Only Felt! Friendship is one among those!" ,so difficult to find words to the feelings. But as people say i am quite a good writer, so i can start from anywhere LOL!!

Bachelors!!! went for my bachelor degree in other city. Leaving my parents, old friends, and the place where i spent my childhood, the place where i started my journey called life. I remember how i used to go my Mom's office after my school, have lunch with her and then drive back home. Where i started learning music! My mommy forcefullyyyyy, i meann with full force sent me to music classes. I was not at all a good girl at that time, never learned anything. still she did not lose hope, first she enrolled me in indian Classical dance training, yes you heard it right. A few days later; i , i mean 'I' started complaining saying, mom, my foot really painss a looottt :(, she replied okay, then don't go! i was happy..but then she added," Dont go to the dance class, i will enroll you to singing classes". :O i was like what is your problem.? I never understood that she was just trying to make me learn, and grow. She was my Best friend; that i realised very late! i mean right now while writing this one!haha.

She came to drop me to my Hostel, was worried; ofcourse any mom would. Set my room in order, kept my things on place and leaving me alone,, trust me alll alone.

OMG, the college was one of the top in the city; in terms of "FASHION":P, and studies too, ofcourse. Big shots getting down from their cars. but since i was a Hostalite i had a reason not to have a car lol.Met someone who was very simple, sweet, and someone who always believed in what she says, and does it. Very out spoken, and i was totally opposite. Very quite, very silent, a good girl who only answers to the faculty :P. We became friends in no time!! She was with me in all my hard times, in all my happy moments.second year, we bacame gooodd friends, studying together, partying, bunking the classes, going for movies, shopping, and what not we did. and when i topped the university..yeah i did!!:) she was with me congratulating, more happier than me. she was the one who trusted me, when others did not. Others just knew how to make fun, others just knew how to blame, others just knew, what they knew..How can i forget the day, when on my Birthday my Mom and my Borther fly to my Hostel bacause they knew i am all ALONE, and they wanted me to be happy!!But she was always with me.

Time went by, finally the day was there where i had to leave that place to pursue higher degree, to fulfill my dream to become an successful M.B.A. I came out of the examination hall,trying to say Good bye to all! My best friend was there, standing silently, no movements, no expressions. I was controlling my tears, how can i leave someone who hassss trustttt me like anything, who has always; like alwayssssss been there for me. She is really not good in expressing her emotions and i was aware of it. I knew it from begginnig that on 'THE DAY' she will try to be very strong, atleast try to. and there she was. I said 'bye', she said 'ya bye'. can you believe it? okay you could have given some better response. I hugged her, and thought will cry out loud and say; it is going to be difficult to stay without you, i know now no one will be there to stand by me always as you did, I know no one will be there to pick me up before every exam and drop me safely, I know no one will be there to bring home made Aloo paratha and chilly paneer, I know no one will be there to give a tight slap to me for my own good, I know no one will be there to take me to the chat corner just because i want to eat,I know no one will be there to make others shut their mouth if said anything wrong about me...I knew it alll.... But she again gave no Expressions. I felt as if she is all ready for me to leave the place. Could not do anything more than this. Left the place with unsaid words beneath my soul...

Bloody two longgg years, my friend didn't talk to me. strange. I thought may be our friendship is done!I called her on her Brithday every year, no response.. Later period, I got placed and Joined Deloitte. An year and a month after i was in Deloitte; i recieved a call from some unknown number, i recieved " Hello, is this Amrita?" someone on the call said, i said " ya, i think i know you. You are Honey? CORRECT; Honey Rathore. she said yes. And And Anddd... we were back to were we left!!!

Life is strange, and so is Friendship, and infact all relationships in the world are!! you just need to Understand them, infact live them, not understand!! This note is for all my dear friends who are always with me; we are foreever and always!!; Thank you so much!!

Amrita

July 10, 2011

Proud to be a Face-Booker!!!

June 19, 2011 i met my two old friends, no no, not that old as well, just of my age!LOL. Went to Inorbit Mall with them. Talked a lot and lot, on Business, Work, Job, Politics, Ethics, and yes also About IBA..the college from where we all graduated..somehow :P!! Strange that our priorities changed, the topics we discuss have taken another turn. Earlier it was only about Lectures, Books, how to copy in Exams, how that faculty is, and that the mess food is not good, Did you see that new akka shop? she prepares maggie really yummmyyyy!,and the Gowda shop where we never found anything to eat other then the hot Puff and Bun Butter samosa( with cheese and without), and that i got fined for Wearing Casual wear on Tuesday and let me be specific ..before 6 P.M IST, and the proxies, the late going for the class( Specially me :P), and missing the lectures, and the cultural functions, the Dance, the fashion show and the outlook war, and alllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll other things that we used to do in those 24 hours. 

That day we talked more on our work culture, how to save money, where to invest, tax benefits, job swapping and allll... we discussed what chandu sir thought, how to match with the frequency of the other person simply to get our work done, and about commitment, marriage too :P. See how life changed in a year after the Graduation.

Another interesting topic that came was FACEBOOK. I  was unaware what they were talking, because i was never on facebook until that day. They talked about wall, about liking the post, tagging , poke and all..I gave a look saying okay can you guys stop and talk something else."I was illeterate on a subject called FACEBOOK" Though i made to talk something else, but Facebook was still going on in my mind. I thought , am i missing something very important in life?, it it that my life is actually incomplete without facebooking?, am i mssing my chance to be a Proud  FACE-BOOKER?. we left the place, had dinner, mmh not exactly dinner, but yummmmyy indian street side food, started with Garma Garam( Hot-Hot)Jelebi, Pani puri, moved on to AllOO paratha, with Pickle, and Curd, after that Pav- bhaji....with cut onions and Lemon on it! wow. Desert?? s , yes, i had a BIGGG Banana shake, also helped my friend to finish his StrawBerry Cone!. 

Mhh left the place, said good bye to my friends, while Driving.... Facebook was coming to my mind, was exicted to know all about it. Came home, opened the Laptop, plugged in the data card, facebook sign in page was there in front of me. ha! closed my eyes, thought once again, and my heart said "Go for it Amrita!!".  Signed it! GOt 9 friend request within a Second. was amazed. Accepted all!! ofcourse they were the first set of friends, who immediately after seeing my name, sent me the request. Dont remember all, but few i do!!Thank you to them. LOL i now you guys dont know who you are!! 

And today i completed my First week on Fcebook! Really good to be on facebook. Met old friends, and shared my life with them.

I thank all who sent me the request and thought that i am their friend still after a long gap of contact, and thank you to all, who accepted being my friend. We are here to share our life, our journey together. And the last thank you is for those, who did not sent me the request, because i did neither.Its just the way of saying" oh it does not matter for us if you are here" also neither for me. Thank you sooo much!  I know facebook is for few just a means to socially network. But for me its something where i can be Myself. I want to be with people with whom i want to be on facebook.

And thats why it is called FaceBook, whats on my mind and Heart, is on my face, whats on my face comes in my book, so its called Facebook.

And the best thing about faceook is...it gives you hell lot of options, to choose a friend, to share the information, to do whatever you want to!

Proud to be a Face-Booker! i am sure you guys are too!

Amy-rita 

June 26, 2011 :)