LIVING IN INDIA - STOP DISCUSSING

From last two posts about my opinion on Meter auto and extra tax I have learned (the you can ready on Facebook). . If you want to spend peaceful and happy life in India then. . .

Do not post anything related to politics. Few people will never agree.

When they don't agree they will make you feel wrong.

They will take the conversation to such place that you will bang your head and just repent that why did you post something on social media.

They will keep arguing - without understanding that yours and theirs opinion is different and if I am writing something then that is my opinion. They are free to write anything on their wall.

They will drag you to a level where you feel you are a fool . .

Now this is new - They will call you show off and trying to gain popularity.

They will do personal comments like - calling you immature, did not expect coming from you, keep your frustration with yourself. .and such. (As if I have asked for something they have never heard of, as if i am the first person to talk on such sensitive topics)

They will say you are losing followers. . people are talking negative about you. .I mean really? Is people's character so loose these days? That by my one post they will just flip their perception towards me. May be. .

They will say you don't have anyone. (OH GOD! such big statement). .

And at the end - Nothing will change!!

Now I know why many people run away from India. . They cannot take this drama. It is stressful and so they decide to just live their life leaving everything behind because they know nothing is going to change. It's India. . Live your life. . enjoy your life. . You come first. . leave everything else. . :D

THE POSITIVES. . .

One evening, I was thinking.. people, as in “We” usually talk about negatives and tend to talk about those things/events that made us feel miserable in life.  We tend to talk about things that hurt or did hurt us in the past us or things that people did not do rather than things that people did for us. Why is it like this? If you observe a child he will be more happier than sad because he forgets things easily that made him cry. . . When we grow we start remembering things, mostly the ones that changed us in a way. . that made us more strong. The experiences that turned our life upside down are there stored in the memory and we talk about those experiences more often than we talk about good memories or experiences.

There is one friend of mine. He has been such a positive influence in my life that after I started looking at his life it made me feel positive about my own life. He is the person who is always happy *touchwood”. Now when I say he is happy that does not mean everything is perfect in his life, but the way he takes life with such positiveness that it gives me a reason to smile everyday. I remember when he was going through such tough time in his life but he did not give up on that smile on his face. He still talk positive things, his passion, dreams and was still passionate about achieving them even though the time was difficult! He is the person who has never talked negative about anyone or anything. He is just so focused on being happy that he just does not have time to look at the negative things. When I look at him I wonder there are good people in this life who still exists!

That person taught me how to be happy for no reason. He taught me happiness is not situational , but it comes from within.

With this positive thought I want to leave you guys with your positiveness! It’s with you and within you. . .