There are times when you take certain decision not knowing
the reason behind it. Even if you know the reason, you are not completely
satisfied with the reason, but still console yourself saying ‘This is the right
thing to do’. Even when your heart talks something different, you console your
mind to consider the decision for your own betterment. Even when people near
you, your friends, and your parents asks you to reconsider your decision; you
stick on to your decision even when your heart wants to listen to them.
Believe me; I have always made this mistake of not listening
to my heart and listen to my mind. Mind always thinks logically and looks at
the benefits, and weighs the options. But heart does not do this entire thing.
Heart never weighs the options but it simply tells you if something is right or
wrong. Whenever there are decisions that I have made on based on the logic or
by getting influenced I have suffered a huge loss.
Listening to heart is very difficult, because it gives you
the clear cut answer to your problem. If it does not like something then your
heart will say don’t do this, or don’t go there. But you try to avoid what your
heart says to you and then start listening to your mind, who tells you the
options and pros and cons. Once you listen to your mind, you divert your heart
thinking mind is saying right.
When you take certain decisions based on your mind and
against your heart, you possibly suffer later.
Everytime I commit a mistake of not listening to my heart, I
say to myself ‘Enough, now going on I am going to do what my heart says’. But
again I commit the same mistake. I
listen to my mind and ignore what my heart says.
But now, I surely have decided I will only do things that my
heart allows me to do. I am not going to get influenced by anyone, nor will
think the logic behind the decision if my heart is not in allowance with this.
Remember, if you make a decision people will be standing with
you, but if it does not work out they will start blaming you for taking the
decision. So always listen to your heart and then make a decision. The decision
should be purely your own decision. If you think there is others influence or
if your heart does not allow then better take a step back and think again.
Listen to your heart; even if one beat of it says ‘No’ then it’s a no!
I wish this bad time does not last long in my life. I hate
JUNE and this time of my life.
God save me from taking wrong decisions! Not any more
please!!!!!!!!
As you say in this article heart is always right and we always neglet it but this is not heart this subconsious Mind that speaks what our inner wants. It shows dreams n when a mind stop thinking. Actually we have to focus on subconsious mind that give ertinity to take decision.
ReplyDeleteno offense that connotation of Listening to heart is I thing just a myth,I think biology says that mind is the numero uno in decision making process that;s why we are endowed with such a intricate brain.
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