DESTINED TO BE . . .

How do you find a perfect person in your life? How do you know if someone is the right choice? Or how do you know if the person you choose will be the one you have always wanted? How do you know if the life you are living is what you deserved or how do you know if the loss you have suffered is what is destined? How do you know if everything that you have got in life is something that you have been destined with?

There is no correct answer for this but just an assumption that whatever is happening is happening because it is destined to be. I know, I know it sounds so much philosophical but that is what people say and that is what everyone on this earth says. Do you really believe on this?

Is it really true that whatever happened or happens in your life is already been decided by someone?

Is it true that everything is pre-planned?

Is it true that every small glass or human is moved by someone’s wish and that someone is unknown?

Is it true that we meet people not by chance but as destined? Or is it true that if someone hurts you or breaks your trust then that is as well destined?

 These questions are highly philosophical and not most of us want to think about them. But it makes me think because things just happen and we don’t even realize how, when and where. Everything is pre-planned as per what I think .From birth to death, from marriage to kids, from whom your parents will be and with whom you will be forever.  If it is not planned then who is the one doing it? How are things happening that are actually happening in our life?

I had this urge to do so many things in life, but it didn't turn up. I turned up to be someone who I never thought will be. When I was graduating the interviewer asked me a question and the question was “Where do you see yourself in next five years”. As usual I said I see myself as a manager in the company I am working with. Also I see myself as a successful professional. At that point I never knew I will be a write, voracious reader and an author or the book “My Vows Remain Unchanged”. I never thought I will work with Deloitte for three long years and still will feel to continue to love U.S. Taxation. I mean things just happen if it had to and if that is not destined in your destiny then no matter how hard you try it won’t happen.

I am sure writing this blog is destined, my thoughts have been destined, talking to people whom I talk is destined, and everything happening in my life is a result of the destiny that I have been assigned to.  I have seen best buddies becoming enemies, I have seen brothers fighting, I have seen lovers departing and I believe it is all the game of destiny.

Well, with this thought I would leave you thinking if you agree to what I have written or not. If you believe in destiny then just believe on it and let things happen. And if you do not believe on destiny then just remember the moment when you tried how to get something in life, still couldn’t get it, that is destiny.