Hot Shot - Four months is a long time.

My last blog was written on? . . . Can anyone of you guess how many days it had been? Or maybe months? One month? Or two? Or three? Or max four?

Let me tell you. . . It has almost been four months (When I wrote this blog it was four months, and today it had been five complete months).  since I have written anything. Believe me from the time I have started writing, this is the first time EVER when I haven’t written anything for four long months (Like FOUR LONG MONTHS). I am myself shocked on this that I have had so many things to share but I haven’t written anything about any one of them.

It happens right, at times that you know what your passion is but you are not able to follow it for a reason or the other. The same happened with me. I picked up the blogs to write, but left them half written, and saved them as drafts in my documents folder. Writing has always been a kind of art for me. It makes me freebie from my worries and tensions. It makes me feel light after expressing what I feel for something. Writing helps me in knowing my own self. From gone by four months everything has been inside me and has accumulated in my mind and heart.

So, today, I am going to talk about four things that happened in my life in past four months. 

# Work:

Yes, I have been working like hell from past four months. The only thing I did that Deloitte taught me is to work like crazy in busy season and party hard after that. But, working like hell is an issue. And when I say working like hell means working 12-14 hours a day and at time even 16 hours. You have to give up on your leisure time, you have to sacrifice your weekends and you have to not bother about how you look and your eyebrows. But the busy season makes me feel that I am capable of working that much. It is a reality check of your own self, of your patience and learning.

# Disputes:

One bad thing about me is I want to be fair with everyone, and I treat everyone equally. If I see something wrong happening near my space I stand for it and try to correct it. Now when I try to correct it, for sure I make few enemies. Now when I make enemies, should I stop being fair or should I support people in doing wrong? Nope. I don’t think so. So in these four months, I again made few enemies, fought with people, and proved my points each time I thought something was wrong.  Now it had happened may times that I thought something was wrong but I couldn't say anything for that or couldn't take a stand.  The issue is if I am not able to say something for the wrong happenings I can’t be relaxed from within and will keep thinking about the same leading to my own loss of blood.

# Experience:

No matter how much you have experienced in life, it is never going to be enough. Every day or the other will bring something new that you have not experienced before. And every-time you think you will keep the experience in mind so that next time you won’t suffer the same but it doesn't work like that. You will again have the same experience but with different learning this time. Same experience twice or thrice teaches you different lessons. 

In-fact experience is never ending. Even after 5 years you will keep experiencing new things that you haven’t experienced before. At the age of 60 you will experience something that you haven’t experienced till then. But yes, you still need to keep learning from those experiences. God, I am tired of experiencing new things all the times but what to do . . . it keeps going on!

And last but not the least. . .

# It’s just life and it will keep going on.

 Yes, we take things too seriously and we react on things. We can’t take if something unfair is happening with us, and want to set it right. Setting it right makes it gets more worst, and at the end the result is zero. People these days are biased and they are double faced. But, you can’t help it. You will see double faced people everywhere. Yes, we always need to make sure to stand for the right and fight for the wrong but if it doesn't work out, then just let it GO!

Okay, so with this I complete my blog after complete four months and hoping to right every week from now onward.

Achievement to be shared:

Published ONLY 71 articles on this blog and have reached 50,000 views.

Keep reading and share the website to your friends. And do get my book if have not read yet. J

A crazy fan of Big Boss 7!

P.S.: Is it just me who feels that people do wrong things purposely and they pull you down on a purpose or everyone? I assume the later one. J