Can I have a lime soda please?!??

‘Can I have a lime soda, please?’ Aisha asked the waiter, as soon as she entered the restaurant, that she struggled to find after ten minutes of walk on the empty road, in an unknown city, Delhi. This was her first week in Delhi and she was yet to find a decent place to stay. Presently, she was staying in the corporate apartment that was provided by the office. She had been given that accommodation for 15 days and within that time frame she has to find another place to put up her ass for next 4 months

.

She was waiting for one of her friend to join at the restaurant. He was the one to suggest that place, as it is near to the place that Aisha was staying. Her friend Neil was a software engineer and was placed in Delhi after they completed their graduation. Aisha and Neil studied in the same college and are friends from then. Neil and Aisha were once going around when in college but then the broke off because they realized that it’s not working. They were complete opposite and when I say complete, means like fire and ice. If Aisha liked Red, he liked Blue. If she liked Romantic songs, he liked racing and biking. After few months of their relationship in college, Neil started acting paranoid. He started thinking that Aisha is not giving him the importance that he urged for. Aisha became more irritated as days passed. Finally they decided to part their ways for betterment of their own self. They loved each other still by all means!

They were friends even after their breakup, as good friends are difficult to find these days. They were about to meet after some two years since the college was over.

Sipping the lime soda that the waiter just kept on her table she dialed Neil’s number asking him where he was. The call was unanswered. She thought that maybe he is on his way and decided to wait.

And there he was, as he barged in through the door. Aisha showed a sign of relief.

‘Hi Aisha’ Neil said as he shook hands with Aisha and moved to hug her warmly.

‘Hi!’ Aisha responded as she hugged him too.

They both took their places and smiled at each other.

‘So… what else? How is life ’? Aisha asked.

‘It’s pretty good. Good to see you today. I thought we would never see each other after the college was over.’ Neil said.

‘Hm, yeah. I know. Even I never thought we would meet like this, in Delhi! Long time, almost two years.’ She sighed.

Neil ordered the food while they talked to each other.

‘And one lime soda’ he said.

‘Oh, I already had one. You still remember that was my favorite drink?’ Aisha shrugged.

  ‘Yes, of course, I do’ Neil replied after a short pause.

‘Why did you call me here Neil? And that too as soon as I landed?’

‘I actually wanted to tell you something’. Neil replied.

‘Okay, and what is it?’ Aisha asked as she gulped the last sip of lime soda.

‘I… I… I actually love you still and I want us to give another chance to our relationship.’ He confronted.

‘WHAT? Are you crazy? I mean… I don’t think that is a right thing to do or for that matter to think. I don’t think I love you anymore.’ Aisha replied, a little freaked out.

‘But, why? I still think of you every day. And now, when you are in Delhi for four months now, why can’t we give another chance? Don’t you like me, at all? Or, do you have someone else in your life? If that is the case, then I won’t come in between you guys. But if you have no one in your life then let’s give each other one last chance. You loved me crazily and I did too. Yes, we were a little immature at that time and acted silly. But now things have changed. ‘Neil summoned.

‘I don’t know Neil. I think I should go. I am getting late. I will talk to you later.’ Aisha shrieked and walked out of the restaurant. She was a little freaked out with what Neil just said right now. Even she likes him, or Loves him, but is scared to give another chance. What if it does not work this time as well? What if they end up fighting like they did the last time? What if Neil behaved the same way?

  ‘Okay, as you say. But please think over what I said.’ Neil said.

Aisha left the place and Neil left too after making the payment.

A year later…

Neil and Aisha were getting married. Yes, Aisha decided to give another chance to Neil as even she found it difficult to run away from her feeling that she had for Neil. Neil left no stone unturned to make things perfect as he never stopped loving Aisha, never! And Aisha as well realized with time that they were meant to be together. A fire and Ice needs each other at some point. J

True love find its place, you just have to give another chance!

P.S.: I know it’s so easy to say. Right? Then to do?... Hm…

WEDDING? I am just 25! 'A hot topic!'

I realized its April 14^th today and I have not written even a single post this month, until now (Sigh!).  I think I’m a little preoccupied with things and also a little tired along with being lazy from past few days. The Goa trip last week was amazing. It helped me in getting my emotions on place.

Okay, so today morning I was talking to my mom, and, as usual she started blabbering about my wedding. My parents saw a guy and they really liked him and his family. Now, when they are convinced about him being the right person for their daughter (that is me), they are behind me for meeting his family. Although, I made them clear that I am not yet interested in marriage but you know how parents are. If they find someone awesome (as per them) then they surely won’t leave you. Since I work for Big4’s, I write, I am mature enough and I am 25, they think this is the right time for anyone to get married.

WHEN I talk to you,,, it means many things.

I am a little pissed off on certain things these days. People (exceptions are always there), these days, believe me, have nothing else to do other than being online on Facebook and chatting and making new friends. Yes, I agree I am equally active on Facebook and you will see my updates quite often on my page and my personal profile. But when I talk about these people they are on Facebook for making relationships, for friendships. These people spend their whole day chatting – chatting and chatting with unknown people and trying to know them.

I update my status about the book (mostly), about the promotion activities, I upload few pictures and people tag me in pictures. For me it’s a necessity to create awareness among the people about the book. Since I am also working on my next book I need to keep my audience engaged and keep them updated about my happenings. Public appearance is a must for people like me. Facebook is the most effective way of advertising platform and people actually relate success to your Facebook page likes. Believe me or not but they do!

Reliving meMoRIes. . . . .

I was watching this video that was so beautifully made and it made me believe in those 4:44 seconds that life is worth living sooo much more than we ever thought about. Those 4:44 seconds made me believe on love soo much more than I ever did. And those 4:44 seconds kept on recapitulating in front of my eyes for zillion times. Life has so many surprises stored for us that we can only smoke out with time. Life is a gamble, it's like you get more when you least expect it. We all have to open those surprises slowly with time! Just that some gets it faster than others.

Oh common, stop the talks please!!!

Alright, I think most of us must be aware of why this blog post is for. Nothing else but the girl who died after gang raped brutally, fiercely, and ruthlessly by five young man, or six I think, sorry it should be seven including the driver of the bus. Young handsome looking guys who wanted to have fun and fulfill their desire (now what desire is it we all know that) saw a girl, a beautiful girl and there that was the prey they were eyeing for. After raping her inhumanely they inserted a long rod (WHAT!!!) in her vagina( HORRIFYING!) and then what do you expect after that? They flicked her out of the bus.

I have a Dream, letting me not to sleep!

Probable cover of the book. May be,may be not.

*******-----------*******

*******-----------*******

"I am going to be a doctor" I told my mom when I was little and tiny. My dad said " yes, we want you to be a doctor and brother is going to be an engineer". Wow, I am going to be a doctor daddy? Then my name is going to be like Dr. Amrita... Isn't it daddy? Mamma did you hear.... My name is going to be “Dr. Amrita". Brother, haha I laughed at him and said..I am going to be a doctor. What are you going to be? An engineer? Boo boo. Living my dreams I ran outside the house. I told all my friends that I am going to be a doctor. We played hide and seek and I got home. Having dinner at the dining table..I was so excited about the dream to be a doctor. I shouted with a spoon in my hand..Yeiyy mamma I am going to be a doctor. Doctor...Doctor!

I am Beautiful!

Hello Behenji, one of my so called friends said, everyone knows who is more beautiful and more fashionable okay. So please don't try to act smart and look at yourself. Also she added you have nothing else to do in life other than just TRYING hard to be more fashionable and that you can never be. Also posting pictures on Facebook to get attention is the only thing you can do. I was listening to what she said, and cried secretly in my room. I couldn't tell anyone as I thought I am so not beautiful to fit in this world. 

Top Rules to be Followed in Blogging....

Alright, there are people who are continuously pinging me, messaging me and asking about how they should start writing, and what should be the thought procedure and how to get more visitors to the blog. Well to be frank, there is no one way to write, or to attract the people to your blog. But there are few things that I follow while writing and always make sure to follow certain points so that people read my blog.

मेरी ज़िंदगी को मुझसे बहुत उमीदें है.!!

एक नया सवेरा था, दिन एक नया, एक नई आशा, एक  नई उम्मीद

एक  नई चाह , एक  नई  प्रतीक्षा,

कुछ पाने  की, कुछ कर गुजरने  की,

दुनिया को दिखाने  की के हम भी कुछ है!

Hit 5,000 ! No its not a Mosquito Repellent.

Note : This just an light post with no meaning in it. There's no lesson to be learned or no experience shared as such. If you guys are really busy then don't read the post. haha. If you just wanna go through some reading you can surely read it.

Before you guys ark ask me what this 5,000 is, let me tell you guys how i started writing. Well, frankly, i don't even remember when was the first time the breeze of writing passed through my heart.haha But it started with the personal diary that i used to write. Yes i used to write, everyday..like everyday without fault. Although it was silly and funny, and i have no idea where those diaries went off. Huh i am very bad in remembering things, including names of people and the cereals and the vegetables. I at times type the message to reply to people and get busy with my work, later after hours when i touch my mobile, i see the message half typed and unsent.I know crazy. I started writing diary to express my feelings and emotions that i could not show it otherwise. I used to write to describe a day, or how mean the world is, how i fought with parents, or how i hate my brother which i love him now, how i liked that guy...Guy?? haha yes i did ( brother please don't ask me questions about the past. :P) So that is the history of how my writing begun. I can write it in P.S. that i was the biggest fan of Shahrukh khan. I used to write letters to him. My brother once read those letters that i wrote to Shahrukh. :P I know it was Hilarious.(For those who don't know who he is..just a intro. He is the Bollywood actor, infact a well known personality in India. Why i am saying india is because i did asked about him to many of my U.S seniors who usually rotates here and they don't know who he is. So he is famous in India. He is not that smart but he acts better than other actors in India. okay okay...not better than others but atleast he acts well.)

We all have dreams...We all wanna do certain things in life. Some want to work, some want to relax, some want to reach the high position in the company, some want to earn money, Some love pets and wanna have at home, Some want to Still figure it out. There are few things that i always want to do in life. haha i will have to figure them out myself. Yes because i never thought of things that i want to do. Because i just know how to live. So its a good exercise for me to get reminded of it.

 Number ! : To teach students in college and universities after gaining a bit of experience in my job. I love teaching and sharing my knowledge.

Number !! : To be one big fashion freak!

Number !!! : Own a Dog. A lab! I love them. They are so cute. Dog for sure, no excuses please! oh BTW, my friends once bought a small puppy to my home.  He irritated me so so much. He pissed all over the room, was going on the bed, not even a second he was calm. Huh..I know its difficult to manage dogs. But that's okay.

Number !!! : To talk! Listen to music. I love Music and i am a proud owner of a guitar! I went to guitar classes for few days, but couldn't continue long enough to play. I hate working at times..because then i have to focus on that more compared to my hobbies. Thank god..Writing is my passion and not the Hobby..Oh yeah..there is a difference between the two.

Number !!!! : Be a good human being. That does not mean always agreeing to everyone, not standing for the right thing and all.. But that means being with someone when needed, respecting someone from heart, and not acting superior to someone.


Number !!!!! : Write and write and write a bit more. And then a bit more..some more of it actually.:P

Number !!!!!! : To go to Rajasthan on Royal Holiday. And and and...to get married in Rajasthan culture..in Rajasthan for sure. I have mentioned this in my previous post as well!Here is the link if you guys wanna read it.I promise its going to be good read.

http://amritaphadnis.blogspot.in/2012/01/when-i-say-india-i-feel-place.html

 I don't know why but somewhere i feel attached to that state and the culture. I feel i was there in my previous birth or hm there is something that holds me to that place. May be the deserts, the songs, the culture, the food and everything else...

Number !!!!!!! : Own a garden of roses. I want to have a gardening area in the home i live in. A MuSt.

Number !!!!!!!! : Go on crazy rides, vacations, travelling, holidays.

Number !!!!!!!!! : To be madly in Love!!! mAd...Mad....Mad. :P

Number !!!!!!!!!! : To write a book! huh..I know.

I want to be the change that i want to do in this world..Especially in India This is one of my long term goal for life. I want to be in India, help developing the society...Also I soooo soo love watching TV..and cooking. And would love to do that. Oh you guys want to know what 5,000 is?? haha its nothing but the total visitors, the page views on my blog. I know.. i know..not that good...but not bad...I am gonna grow and mature with time..and so will be my blog.

I really hope it was worth wasting your time read! If not, i promise next one will be. 
Till then.,,,Keep reading and Ofcourse Keep Blogging! 

FAnsssssss!!!!!!!!!!!! :P Appreciators! A thank you!

"Every artist was first an amateur. But I think It is not for you. Your blogs are very inspirational and very touching... Keep it up :)" 


This is one of my most favourite compliment that i received recently on the blog from someone whom i don't even know! Also the best one to start the article with.  

This article is nothing but a thank you to all the readers of the blog. For people who like my work, and send me e mails, and comment on the blog letting me know the developmental areas. I have always said this like thousand times, but i want to take another opportunity to "Thank you" all for your time, and liking and visiting my blog.

okay after the above speech lets have some fun. I am going to share few e mails and comments in this article and that i really really love. People comment few awesome things about the writing and the blog and i think that should be shared by the readers, so that they know..that i am reading them, and most importantly appreciating them! This is not at all to make fun of the e mails received but appreciating them. Also there are no names of the people who commented that i am gonna share in the Article, because privacy needs to be maintained. I am sure people who commented would remember their comments( Hopefully).!!

E mail Number 1 : This one is my favorite as the way it has been written is Amazing. Just like the way i write my Articles, Dreamy world kind of!:)

Hi Amrita,
Just to introduce myself, I am *******, friend to ********** n a colleague to u as well, currently working as a SAP Consultant in ********.

Dis morning, after having a coffeee. I had opnd my FB... while i was going thru my frnds updates... I saw your profile on d right pane "People you may know".... D first impression, I had on you was ur "pretty luksssss n ur cute smile"....I felt to know more about you and pretty interesting and took sometime to luk into ur FB profile. But, I am really impressed with your blog....I must admit to you that ur content is very very inspiring and I have become a great fan of your blog...Believe me friend, you have made my day even more happier than I would be.

I wish that you would accept me as your frnd.. I am sure that you would not disappoint ur fans.... But pls continue your blogging as your writings are Truly inspiring me...

Have a wonderful n colorful weekend.

Luking forward to meet you in near future. Probably, I can c u on monday if you guys are not moving to G block...

Warm regards,
************

PS: I think i have seen you in cafeteria...

Wow! it feels great to read such e mails and comments about the blog, and of course me as well! No...No..no..i did not accepted this person's friend request.


E mail number 2 : This e mail i received some year and a half back when i recently started writing. I was really not sure if i would continue writing or that would be my last article written. But here i Am!!! So e mail number 2-

Hi Amrita

I am *****. Recently I was reading at your blog and I notice that you are in a lot of pain. Your blog is very interesting and nice. It gives a message to all those who have gone through this phase in their lives. Why dnt you continue writing your blog , may be you can quote some interesting things which happened and you are happy to be a part of it. I knw I am nobody to advice you but i just shared my thought with you. 

Are you working or studying? I dnt knw if I would get a reply to this e-mail. All the very best and Keep bloggin :):) take care byeee

thanks

****

Hmm.. i did replied to the above e mails saying a warm thank you! But i don't know who that person is and how he looks like or if he is still reading my blog. Hopefully he is reading. 

Now few comments that i really love and are soo damn Genuine. I love people who actually comment not just to comment but letting their heart out. I have been really lucky in getting readers who actually let me know how things are going and what should be improved. 


#1: hi dear.. it was an alarming moment for me.. tht u have been writing so better.. where was uer hidden talent all these days.. the story u dipped ur pen in isnt any way wrong.. it really is the fantasy world tht people live in .. and at times i do love my fantasies.. tht includes some of my special frnds... u knw i count on u for most of the things... and i m glad tht u are mt frnd...

all the best for every thing..
and keep writing.. 
i will be the obedient reader to these posts tht i promise...

#2: Nicely written...You seems to open a book of thoughts:)


#3: Now this one is one of my Favorite. 

nice name of your blog... "Ruler"... to be honest I really like the name... but I certainly belive and will always believe that .. there are certain things in life which are immeasurable and it is better to leave them that way.. especially "pain" and "love" 


Now that I myself in love with someone.. I could empathize you more than ever... and I just wish to God that plz plz plz plzzzzzzz... for heaven's sake don't break somebody's heart. It is terrible to show the heaven and then shatter it like a glass... it's not just heart which breaks .. it is the entire world of that person and the people related to person that breaks ... I could really FEEEEELLL more than before how terrible it feels when someone show the dreams and ...let it go... forever...

The words and the way you have expressed is absolutely fantastic .. and it can bring tears .. this is to emphasize the fact that you have successfully conveyed your inner emotions.Good or bad.. happy or sad... you have expressed everything quite nicely..

Keep writing .. and keep living...

Sometimes we take too long to that realize that living means life and it is full of it..

Cheers!!!!!

#4: God deep analysis Rita,

i agree as many good blog posts and blogs are going un-noticed, as they really do not reach the wider audience .. unlike big websites where a picture of vidya balan , saying " meet the dirty girl" gets lot of likes..

there are audience for those type of posts. 

But again to mention the people who write original unique quality content will win in the long run..

you need to focus on how to make your blog available to wider audience also.


www.readitt.in (the e magazine)

#5: OMG.. I READ THIS POST 3 TIMES,WHY 3 ?

cause this post have potentially gravitation for original Blogger(not me) really...


hoping for learn something new from your next post..........

#6:  TOUCHY TOUCHY POST :) CHEER UP by thinking awl 4 gOOD :)

#7: Emotionally charged and honest to the moment when this all is felt

I believe its posts like this justifies the existence of the blogging sites. Posts like these in which feelings, emotions, desires, hopes, fears and everything felt in a lone moment are poured into.

Kudos

#8:  it's your starting of blogging but you proved yourself with your post that "Look at Me,i m not a beginner"  

Fan...!! Truly..so well expressed..!! Hats off...!! 

clear blogging.. 
one of the best post of this blog i read.you are going rock...soon u will be have a TAG ---
"Best Indian Blogger"

#9: A perfect blogging i m seeing.

this one is just like as you stole activity of bloggers.
really !! you are growing to greatness !!!!

#10: And to tell you guys i love Lengthyyyyyyy comments!:P

Well it happens to most of us…. But its difficult to remember what we thought just a minute before… as hell lot of thoughts go through our mind….. its interesting that u were able to recollect and write it down…….. someone said to me that we should look at our life as a person standing at the corner of the road.. sees the traffic passing by……… u did the same thing...... (sorry for the lengthy comment :P)

#11:  

I thought it was going to be some boring old post, but it really compensated for my time. I will post a link to this page on my blog. I am sure my visitors will find that very useful.
Cbse sample paper

#12:  Wow..!! this blog I like d most Ma'am...really this is what only a writer could notice....!! I really salute u for this blog.....!!! Great going..!

#13: your every post silently say some-thing in my perception 

I Mean-
clearly ! "measurement of life"
perfectly touched it:)

#14: Lovely content and a deep concentration on the reality of life... And as you mentioned in your last paragraphs, there could have been at least one such person who could have guided her through the right path, for this I have only few words to say. It is important that we maintain a good and in fact healthy friendship with old buddies and with the present colleagues. Some may still glide our ships to the wrong direction, but some may still hold the wheel to help your sails go straight. It is necessary that we find such people in our lives. And being professional should never be compared to having such great relations. It can be that you find sweet people in the company, but their sweetness may be really harmful at times. It is necessary that one should maintain some distance between their office colleagues

#15:  Did this really happened to someone???……… it all happens because of competition…….. it can happen over a period of time…. But suddenly your colleagues saying bad things about you……. Strange… also if you want your existence to be felt… its upto u ….. u can do it by your work and behavior…….. in short u need to decide what u want to be remembered for and what people might say at your back…. And offcouse…. This world is jealous… they will try to pull down…. But we need to continue…… and yes don’t worry nothing will happen to your existence J

#16:  Very sad to read such cruelty of human beings, but this is the reality of life. People of try to pull you down when they see your inclined success. We need to be as cruel as others to feel our presence amongst others. The earth revolves.... dark and light keep on playing with each other... But still it revolves… everything will be all right… 

Hard reality but nice one…

#17:  Very expressive. Takes courage to share. Cheers!

#18: amazingly well written..... the love can be felt in the words written.. as we start reading.. above movie starts running in front of our eyes.... remember the dialogue from movie NAMASTEY LONDON .. "Ishq di mere mitra pehchaan ki, mit jaave jado jid apnaan di"... it means pyaar ka asli matlab usse pana nahin hota... :P................. ......................... haan agar mil jaye to phir baat hi kya :)

#19:  Amazing!!!very well chosen words, thoughts and amazing expressions.. dear you are doing a wonderful job by expressing your thoughts through this medium.. keep up the spirit and I shall look forward for your next one...

#20:  Well written and very well explained the bitter truth that exists……. First I thought why it is happening in our society… than realized that this is how it is happening since ages in our society…. It’s changing and it will take time… Off course women are not here to do only the things mentioned in your article… nothing should be imposed on them… even their view should be taken…. In terms of capability they are not at all less than men…….. women play very important role if any decision has to be made in a family… it will be good if they play same role in building society and country…………………….. One thing that I miss in my life is having a real sister….. Miss it badly……

#21: ""What if i want to study further,

what if i wanna have my identity ? 
.....................................................
......................................................""
it's really heartbreaking paragraph which i like most 
trust,today i am sharing this article on net as much as i can.

#22: Chor ka apna koi jigar nahi hota..ye bat to apne suni hogi right, vo kudh dara hota hai ki usko koi pakad na le, If I would have been in your position whould have complained to bus driver and asked him to put that man out from bus and to co...mplain to police...you should have trust on India Police....agar hum log ye samajh ke hi chup hojaye ge ki vo badla le ga...to uski himat aur nahi badhe gi..ajj apko kal kisi aur ko aur parso kisi aur ko vo tease kare ga kyu ki apne use ye bata diya hai ki ladkiya darti hai...you should have courage inside you so that you should feel secure...instead of writting here and complaning try to act...its better to DIE than to SUFFER.

Don't only complain...just act...we are also free in this Independent India..."Mr Rapist" no one just the bloody Cowardness of ourself..
Grow up!! pick the sowrd up and bring revolution...difficulty is nothing just a path for our success

#23: Nicely written.. Specially the last two paragraphs …. Initial 3-4 paragraphs could have been touch better…. Off course girl’s can’t stop travelling alone, they have to prepare themselves to face such incidents and society too need to act in timely manner to avoid such type of cases…… frankly speaking guys are more responsible for such type of incidents…. Aur unka kuch nahin ho sakta… u have to be prepared….

#24:  

Very well written..
About the issue : yes its bad that it happned.
Our country is on th everge of change But its not easy staying ion here.
Delhi / NCR region sucks in this matter.
And yes Kuch logo ka kuch nahi ho sakta , better be prepared.

#25: You are right - never compare relationships. Sometimes there is a big difference between what the outside world sees and what is actually inside the relationship.

Good Blog
Keep Blogging
Regards
Vikram

Huh i know this is a long article and too many comments. But i need to include all my favorites. I have few more, but didn't want it to be like a     book Article. Till then see ya! 

Happy blogging!

Don't need you guys to promote it this time. Because its a Thank you! :)
If you are an indiblogger, do promote the post, if you liked it. Else, leave a comment, or a like, if the post related to you in some way. Thanks! 

Uneasiness! At times.

Hey Amy, How are you doing? Would you like to come for a dinner we are going Saturday night, and then the Hard rock cafe, little bit dancing, and few bottoms up. Its gonna be fun. Don't say no..pleaseee. ???? hmm. I thought for a while. She asked again..you coming right? ....Listen you guys continue, i said, and added.. I am actually a kind of busy and also need some rest. Well, i think she got to know that i am lying, but what to do. I was feeling a bit low, a bit uneasy. No, no. there was no such reason, its just a natural process i think we all go through some day or the other. So when its a natural i decided to give some time to myself, and that gave rise to this blog post.

Uneasiness! at times. oh ya, i know we all feel like that. When something takes more of our attention than required. When We are stuck in some situation, and the solution seems to be invisible. When we want to achieve the dream, and the way seems to be unreachable. When the boss in on our head to complete something, and we have our own urgent tasks. When vehicle is out of petrol in middle of the road, and the friend does not respond to the call. When there are thousand's of responsibilities, and unable to decide which one should be done first. When it rains heavily and you get no auto or taxi. When there is no batter in your laptop, and power ain't there. or when Internet is not working, and you get out of order. When you have to catch the 04 am flight, or train.  When you see someone with whom you broke off, or meet the new girlfriend of the guy you still love. when you have tears in your eyes, for the silliest fight with mom or dad, or your very best friend.  When fan or ac not working, when you are not able to watch your favorite prime time channel because someones watching news. Something that top on my list is declaring the investments, and filing the tax return. Asking for refund.

gosh, there are numerous things, you can feel uneasy at and for. Then what should be done in such situations.?!?!? What should be done? I am repeating the sentence again to get some solution . hmm. Few things that you can do when you feel a bit uneasy, a bit low is :

# patience. When things go wrong, and not as per your wish, have patience.
# Word carefully : When you are upset, or in anger, it happens that words may sound harsh, and hurt others feelings. It had happened with me numerous times and then i repent later.
# Take a walk, or watch some TV, or listen to some songs.
# Don't think, tooo much. Relax. I wont say do some Yoga and stuff( of course you can if you want), but ask you mind to think less, and heart to beat less.
# Eat something that you love, or if you are diet conscious, have a fruit plate, or Fresh orange juice.
# Do something that you love, say blogging, writing, or reading a book( oh yes, and a suggestion, always have few books in your collection that you can read n number of times, when you are bored, or sad, or upset, or happy, or super happy. )
# Be organized: yes, in whatever you do.
# Have a routine, be it wasting the time, or sleeping late. have a routine.
# Buy some flowers, your favorite one, place it at your desk, and in your room, so when you get up, you see the freshness and feel it whole day.
# Dance!
# Always get dressed the best you can, that actually boost your confidence, and if you are not well dressed, or the clothes are dirty, it spoils your mood, and you feel uneasy.
# Now this one is for girls. Keep your hair healthy, and wash them at regular intervals.
# Don't give excuses, on anything to anyone. Be straight, but careful on words.
# Sleep well.

There are many more things you can do, but few last ones,  that i feel, the most important of all are:

# Be yourself. and learn to say no.
#When you don't feel like going out, don't go.
#When you don't feel like eating something, say you can't.
#When you wan't to spend a day with yourself, that is it.
#Respect yourself.

and the last is:

# Never ever fear of loneliness, or losing someone. Because that is something we all are afraid of.

P.S : I have always felt, life is worth living once for sure. Don't blame, Don't ask, Don't repent. and yes one thing i forgot to say, Eat an apple a day, and the doctor away. I have started doing that this new year. 

T-R-U-S-T - - - - - - -The odd man out!

How strange life is, how strange people are, and how odd man out the word 'Trust' is.

'Trust'! what does it actually means ? Does it mean a person does not hurt you? Does it mean a person does not betray you? Does it mean a person fulfills his promise? Does it mean a person be with you forever and forever? Does it mean a person always be with you in need and deed? Does it mean a person should stick on to the words that he blabbered a days back or years back? Does it mean a person should not break your heart?   Well well well, hold on are these all expectations ? It depends again. We usually try connecting Trust and Expectations and collaborating it. Both means different. Let me clear it out as per my experience and understanding.

Trust is when somebody promised you that he will be with you forever, or will help you in completing some task. That is something the other person promised himself and you did not ask for it. It was his will to do that for you because may be he loves you, or he thinks you are a friend worth it, and he cares for you because he likes you.

Expectation is when you expect something out of others without they promising it to you. When you expect someone to stand by you even they never said that they will , or when you expect that the other person loves you or care for you without that person telling it out to you.

Trust breaks when someone does not do what he has promised to you, and expectations break when someone does not do that he did not promised and your heart expected. What hurts more? Trust or Expectation ? Well i think both. Trust hurts because the other person tried to build that trust in you for him, and when you did trust him, he couldn't stand up-to that. Expectations hurt a little less than trust because at-least it was one sided and at the end it was your fault to expect something out of someone.

At the end the question comes should we never trust someone? Well...there is no answer left for that question. Because trust is something you get to know after betrayal. When someone breaks your trust you actually get to know the real meaning of it. And so we say..experience teach you well.

And believe me you are gonna experience the same thing again and again in life but with a different learning, with a different thought process and with a different result. Also believe me each experience teaches you a new lesson.At times some situation is difficult to control than the other one, but believe me one more time that god had made each one of us soo strong, that surely we can manage ourselves if not others.

P.S : Well something happened that made me to write this post. What is it? I am surely gonna write it the next time. Till then See ya! and Happy blogging to my fellow bloggers!

So you think, you can't write?

I wonder, is it only me who think, that whatever i write is all bulls shit, crap, and just disgusting with no meaning. Is it only me, who think, that people are not at all interested in reading my blog? or any post , or any article i write? Is it only me, who feels, the articles  are just words and nothing more? Is it only me, who when read others article, or visit someone's blog, wonder, " OMG, the blog looks awesome, and see the number of posts, the followers, comparing with mine? Asking the question, why don't i have these many followers, ? what is soooo special in this bloody picture that it has promoted by 500 odd people? I mean common, my posts are better, faaarrrrrrrrr better than this person's? okay, enough of bitching i guess.. Oh no, not yet i have some more points to point out to the bloggers. Has it happen to others( ofcourse including me), that okay, i think i am not at all fit for this blogging and all, I should better focus on the one liner's on the FB and or Twitter( The tweet bird) P.S.: well i really find the bird really really cute. P.P.S : i know post script has to be used at the end. But thats okay, It's my post and i can write it the way i want.

okay, back to the topic. you know this is the worst habit in my, i wanna write on something, and my mind will have thousand thoughts running, that distracts the flow. ugh! i have to improve! okay, so,  I know many of us think , that we can't write and that, we should stop irritating people by our posts, and we should keep our thoughts to ourselves as you don't get the likes expected. Right? Are you also the one who comes under the category of " So you think, you can't write?" Well if yes, here are few tips and tricks to be followed when you are writing, or when you get through this thought.

1. Think of something original. Well when i say original, means, don;t peep into others blog( well, this gonna be my second point, but never mind if i mentioned it in the first one), and try to connect it to your post. you see love on some blog, and try to write on that, you see some invention and decide, oh yes, even i can write on invention. yeah! No, not all all. Don't do that ever.The main purpose of blogging is to share your thoughts, remember YOUR, its you what people want to know. It's what you think matters here, and not what others like, or on what topic i will get the most likes. A blog shows your personality, and so it should show your emotions, be it happy or sad, be it good or bad, be it wierd, or old, or new or religious or whatever. Remember again, originality of thoughts, originality of you, that is what makes you perfect. and that is what the first Criteria to become a blogger.

I would say : Be original, be the best! is the first main point you have to keep it mind.

2. As i already mentioned it in the first point : DO NOT peep into other blog's ,pages, and articles. Mind me, reading and peeping are two different things. I am talking about the later one. Do not peep. Again i will say, exploring is different than peeping. You can surely have a look, at the articles, the followers, the positives, the negatives, the Template used. But don't start replicating the things, thinking " Wowww, the template is awesome, let me change mine. Nope, never. See, appreciate, and move on. Come back to your page. So i would say:

Do not peep, just explore and appreciate.

3. No, not at all. I don't believe you do that.. Just don't judge your posts or an article by the number of likes, or comments, or How many of them promoted your post on Indiblogger( Well, that is what even i do). But that's a big NO, NO . why? well i have a reason. Likes have a logic and so do comments. Although people might be reading your blog, and your articles, but may not be 'liking' or 'commenting' as they are lazy to do so. or may be people are reading, but think, " oh common, how does it matters to him/her if i like. He anyways writes good, and i am sure he must be aware of it( I know wrong perception, can't help it). or the most important point, they must be thinking( I am sure many do) that what if he gets more likes, comments, or followers? what if he gets more popular on Indiblogger or on FB? What if people stop promoting my blog? and last but not the least, few thinks, "oh common, what am i even getting promoting somebody's post. Forget it. I am getting my share and i am happy." So imagine, if you think you can't write and people don't like your post, there are plenty of reasons for that.

So a BIG NoNo to deciding your capability on the basis of likes, and the promotion!

4. Short and sweetu : Well yes, this is something you can do surely. Remember you are writing a blog, and a blog is something quick. Where reader's wanna have a quick look at your article, and read it real quick, and just get that punch in a mile second. So try not to write 5000 words article where people can't complete it, and leave it half read. Always remember, its not the quantity, its the quality.

So, it should be short and sweet for sure!

5. I mentioned in point 4, about the punch in the article, where the reader is forced to get in the actual reading because something excites him. Well what can be that something? That something can be, most importantly, A UNIQUE Title!!! Yes, the title. it should be something that makes the reader click on your post, and atleast help him to get started read the blog. Always try that title keeps the suspense of the main content.

SO the Title should be Tiled awesomely!

and finally last, but not the least, on the list is :

6. Go back to point one, and read it again. Don't forget....

Be original, be the best.

One day while going to the office!

I got ready for office, and was near the parking area. Heard the voice, bhow- bhow. Went outside the building and guess  what did i saw? Two cute puppies, i think a week old, playing and crumbling the Chapati given to them. As they saw me going towards them, they ran, with food in their mouth, thinking i may eat all. I called again, baby come here..After a lot of efforts, I was successful in winning their hearts and now, we play everyday. I have to see them once i get back home, pat their back, love them and get into the apartment. If i don't see them, they listen to my vehicle's horn and come running. Wanna see the picture? Here it it!

Really, pets are something makes you happy. They are always with you, and give lots and lots of love, if you love them.Please, please, adopt if you have the capability. Even they deserve a better life.

Proud to be a Face-Booker!!!

June 19, 2011 i met my two old friends, no no, not that old as well, just of my age!LOL. Went to Inorbit Mall with them. Talked a lot and lot, on Business, Work, Job, Politics, Ethics, and yes also About IBA..the college from where we all graduated..somehow :P!! Strange that our priorities changed, the topics we discuss have taken another turn. Earlier it was only about Lectures, Books, how to copy in Exams, how that faculty is, and that the mess food is not good, Did you see that new akka shop? she prepares maggie really yummmyyyy!,and the Gowda shop where we never found anything to eat other then the hot Puff and Bun Butter samosa( with cheese and without), and that i got fined for Wearing Casual wear on Tuesday and let me be specific ..before 6 P.M IST, and the proxies, the late going for the class( Specially me :P), and missing the lectures, and the cultural functions, the Dance, the fashion show and the outlook war, and alllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll other things that we used to do in those 24 hours. 

That day we talked more on our work culture, how to save money, where to invest, tax benefits, job swapping and allll... we discussed what chandu sir thought, how to match with the frequency of the other person simply to get our work done, and about commitment, marriage too :P. See how life changed in a year after the Graduation.

Another interesting topic that came was FACEBOOK. I  was unaware what they were talking, because i was never on facebook until that day. They talked about wall, about liking the post, tagging , poke and all..I gave a look saying okay can you guys stop and talk something else."I was illeterate on a subject called FACEBOOK" Though i made to talk something else, but Facebook was still going on in my mind. I thought , am i missing something very important in life?, it it that my life is actually incomplete without facebooking?, am i mssing my chance to be a Proud  FACE-BOOKER?. we left the place, had dinner, mmh not exactly dinner, but yummmmyy indian street side food, started with Garma Garam( Hot-Hot)Jelebi, Pani puri, moved on to AllOO paratha, with Pickle, and Curd, after that Pav- bhaji....with cut onions and Lemon on it! wow. Desert?? s , yes, i had a BIGGG Banana shake, also helped my friend to finish his StrawBerry Cone!. 

Mhh left the place, said good bye to my friends, while Driving.... Facebook was coming to my mind, was exicted to know all about it. Came home, opened the Laptop, plugged in the data card, facebook sign in page was there in front of me. ha! closed my eyes, thought once again, and my heart said "Go for it Amrita!!".  Signed it! GOt 9 friend request within a Second. was amazed. Accepted all!! ofcourse they were the first set of friends, who immediately after seeing my name, sent me the request. Dont remember all, but few i do!!Thank you to them. LOL i now you guys dont know who you are!! 

And today i completed my First week on Fcebook! Really good to be on facebook. Met old friends, and shared my life with them.

I thank all who sent me the request and thought that i am their friend still after a long gap of contact, and thank you to all, who accepted being my friend. We are here to share our life, our journey together. And the last thank you is for those, who did not sent me the request, because i did neither.Its just the way of saying" oh it does not matter for us if you are here" also neither for me. Thank you sooo much!  I know facebook is for few just a means to socially network. But for me its something where i can be Myself. I want to be with people with whom i want to be on facebook.

And thats why it is called FaceBook, whats on my mind and Heart, is on my face, whats on my face comes in my book, so its called Facebook.

And the best thing about faceook is...it gives you hell lot of options, to choose a friend, to share the information, to do whatever you want to!

Proud to be a Face-Booker! i am sure you guys are too!

Amy-rita 

June 26, 2011 :)