Sunday, August 5, 2012

Few- Friends- Forever!!

I am reallllllllllllllllllyyy reallyyy a choosy person when it comes to making friends. I am basically a vibe person means if I get the vibe..a certain positive kind of when talking to you then i can think of making you a friend. There are many people in our life whom we think are our friends but when come in talking about them we have nothing to say, because they never did anything for you as such that friends do. They never went that extra mile that they should have being your friend. People usually say a friend is the one with whom you spend your time with, with whom you share your secrets( A wild one or the easy one), a friend is one who is with you when you need, in your sorrows and in your happiness, a friend is the one who without any promise for lifetime be with you forever.

In my life i have few friends with whom I have shared my most wildest secrets that no one in the world knows..I shared the most memorable moments that no one can ever think of, with few i have shared a whole lot of myself. They have picked up my call when its night 0200 and i wanted to talk to them about something that i was going through. They have calmed me down in the situations where i couldn't do it myself.

okay okay okay...enough of talking..I wrote this article not to praise my friends, but to know what exactly what we think friends are.. We all think differently..yes ofcourse we do, luckily.!:P So what i think friendship is..? Hmmmmm...that is a big question..

Friends are the one who help us in need - why ? So you need them for your need?
Friends are the one who are with you always - Why? you need them to be with you always?
Friends are the one who help us when we feel low or down - Hm...and when you are happy?
Friends are the one who takes care of us - So you can't take care of yourself.?
Friends are the one who lend us money when needed - and when you don't need?
Friends are the one who always understands your feelings, emotions - Well can't you understand yourself? and what if he does not understand you at times?
Friends are the one who don't need any explanations - If he asks for an explanation then?

Reading all above you must be thinking then who is a friend..

Well i think a friend is the one with whom you are what you are. They does not share their secrets but their life and heart with you. Friends are your life and not a part of it. And i am really lucky to have them with me at every phase of my life. Friends are not always the one who are with you in your need but even when you don't need them. They are there to share your moments that makes them so special. They are not the one who are with you always, but the one with whom you want to be always, they are the one who makes you feel cared, they are the one who do ask for explanations when you go wrong, they are a part of you..and makes you feel a part of them.

Well their is no definitions of friendship but they are the one who are in your heart always! and very truly said they are the one with whom you spend the best time of your life with said, and unsaid words!

Happy friendship's day Guys! May you have best of friends in your life...



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6 comments:

  1. Well written! :) but Why such days to express our feelings?..Relationships are not dependent on any day.. Relationships r meant to feel.

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  2. Just like love ... friendship cannot be defined ... never define any relation ........... just live to it.

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  3. Glad that I am featured in the Post image :) just kidding.. and yes.. well said : Friends are not just people who are a support to life they are "LIFE"
    And once I am done saying this I dont have to give any more clarifications on my life..
    glad to have a friend like you dear..!
    Love ya!!!! loads and loads :)

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